It is like eating a food offered to an idol when you abandon the lap of your wife (your suitable companion) to desire the honeycomb of another woman. The Bible calls her a strange woman. And her mission in your life is to do you strange harms, and open you to satanic wars. Satan and his agents will just continue with you, after she is done with your life. Strange women oftentimes have wrecked the destinies of great men, turned generals to boys all the days of their lives, men who were supposed to be great international business owners are rendered perpetual employees all their productive years, and often return back to their villages with strange sicknesses of various degrees.

You can offend God and be forgiven, but it is impossible to work for the devil, partner with the devil, do deals for Satan, and not return home in pull blood and regret. Satan is not a favourable partner, he is a predator, he does not forget to pay dividend of all sinful investment in a lifetime.

It is not possible for us to ignore the Word of God, instructions of righteousness, in our daily living, and expect that it should be well with us, as if we have obeyed, what we have been commanded by our Lord and Savour. Let’s read a text in Proverbs chapter 6 from verse 20 to 29, to see the counsel of God that many in our generation are taken for granted, yet we thought that it ought to be well with us as if we have obeyed our Maker.

My son, keep your father’s command, and do not forsake the law of your mother. Bind them continually upon your heart; Tie them around your neck. When you roam, they will lead you; When you sleep, they will keep you; And when you awake, they will speak with you. For the commandment is a lamp, and the law a light Reproofs of instruction are the way of life, to keep you from the evil woman, From the flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids. FOR BY MEANS OF A HARLOT A MAN IS REDUCED TO A CRUST OF BREAD; AND AN ADULTERESS WILL PREY UPON HIS PRECIOUS LIFE. Can a man take fire to his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? Can one walk on hot coals, and his feet not be seared? So is he who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her shall not be innocent!

Except God shows mercy, there is nothing anyone can do to the devil, that he would not repay any betrayal of men in marital relationship. Satan is aware that God hates it with passion.

The truth about the devil is that, until the devil destroys anyone on board with him, he is not satisfied. Until he kills, and make ruins of the possessions of a man, he is perpetually angry with his partners.

The devil does not spare women off the hooks when there are cut in the net. Whosoever goes in there is trapped for distraction. Adultery is an altar of life destruction, and except Satan has wasted every purpose of that life to the earth, and finally certified him for eternal condemnation of hell, he is unfulfilled. He pursues like a wounded lion, until every mission is successful to his taste, and a life is down never to rise again. He does not forgive anyone his or her wrong for as long as there's breath in him.

But there is hope for any man (including women and children) in God.  There is an open mercy for anyone to clean up in God. I am not talking about you just confessing your sins and going back to sit down, that will only earn you forgiveness with God, but not with Satan. Satan does not always forgive.

After the forgiveness of your sins, you need deliverance, you need to partner with God to be delivered from the depositions of the strange accomplice and demons in your life. When this is done, don't think it is over, it is not over. Satan does not forget wrong things easily; for leaving him has automatically increased his hatred for you. You were his former boy (slave), and now you are gone, and joined yourself to another. He would vex himself against you, and if you never moved beyond forgiveness of sins and deliverance, you are not totally free from his schemes. You need to take your journey further.

Move to level of spiritual growth and development. This will help you to be equipped spiritually, it will at the end make you a boss/lord over Satan. And you will be lifted far above all that he could deploy against you. You will become an authority. You will then become a force he can't break through. Apostle Paul says, “When you ought to be teachings others [giving spiritual helps to others], you yourself is asking to be taught [or aided in little, little battles of life]”. This thing ought not to be so, growth is fundamental in the kingdom of God.  

 

Many who left the devil, oftentimes still suffer from some consequences because they thought it was just to confess sin and you are done. Judas Iscariots left the devil at a point, but because he was not committed to growth, Satan still came for him, and robbed him of his eternal inheritance.  It is not just to confess sin. Adultery is not like hand check that you think you can wash off. It is not. It is opening the door of one’s life to satanic partnership, and Satan won't be done with you, even if you are tired and wanted to give up the deal.

Don't touch it, be faithful to your wife, God already hates unfaithfulness, why should you love it, and you think the same God who hates what you have loved to do, will still be at your defense? No, He will not. Except you have repented, and move on with him on spiritual growth process to become a defender of your life under God, the contract you have signed could be the reason you wouldn't have rest and fulfilment again.

What one wrong sex can do to a man, is nothing less than what the Bible calls it: “A CRUST OF BREAD”.

Don't go there, and should you have gone there before, return to the Lord, for He will abundantly pardon. And as a Father, He is always ready to go with you, helps you to grow up and become responsible son in the kingdom, so you can handle every battle against your life to victory. Don't say God has forgiven me, that's all. It is only God who has forgiven you after you confessed your sins, not the devil. The devil does not forgive anyone that left the part of destruction. No, not even for one second. His interest is to destroy a sinner. Yes, not for anyone to escape his hold. But our victory over the devil is only in the Lord. And our growth is our total liberty in God. Salvation without knowledge is not total freedom. It is not. God once said concerning His people Israel, "My people perish for the lack of knowledge". Knowledge is essential for your total freedom, liberty in God. Don't stop until you have grown to attain full sonship in God.

Dear, only God makes sense in all about life. Only God can pay you eternal dividend for living. There is no way a man or woman will leave God behind in his lifetime, that he will not regret he left God behind one day before leaving the earth.

Please, chase God in your lifetime until He becomes a friend. Don't turn back until He calls you a friend!

Thanks for the gift of your time, I am John Ojoagbene!

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