+234-803-445-5678    info@centrendl.org
CentreNDL on Facebook CentreNDL on TwitterCentreNDL on Google+CentreNDL BlogSend Email to CentreNDL
CentreNDL  on CentreNDL

                                Home > Blog > Relationship & Marriage > Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence

Discover Your Personality Type in Less Than 15 Minutes
Popular Posts
Have You Also Been Called A Leader? : What Would You Do About Your Leadership Call?

Vision of Mount Carmel - Children from the Rock!: God's Message To The Church in Nigeria

The Burden of Nationhood: How Nigerians Must Deliver Nigeria

Life Growth Strategy: Training vs Transformation - What Do You Need Now?

Self Entrepreneurship: How to Add Value to God's Investment on Your Life

Trembling Leadership: The Worst in Uncertainties

Leadership Principle: Taking Responsibility for Your Organization, Nation & Generation

Success Strategy: How to Achieve Personal and Business Success

Rediscovering Man: Understanding the Body of Man

The Law of Impact: How To Reproduce Your Success In Others

The Greatest Challenge of Leadership Practice:

The Law of Influence: A Leader Either Influences Or Is Influenced

Latest Posts
Ethical Matters In Ministry Pt 2: The Minister And Laying On Of Hands
What You Must Do While You Await The Second Coming of Jesus Christ: Why Idle Away or Doss Off In Corruption Thinking He Will Never Come?
Who Do You Think You Are?: The Sensitive Question That Leads Into Complete Self Awareness
The Lord Jesus Christ: How Do We Respond To His Lordship?
Understanding Biblical Leadership Types:
How Far Can Satan Go With Your Body?: Strategic Positioning In Spiritual Warfare for Victory
Jesus Christ: Your Life Lord
The Parable of The Rich Fool: Practical Implication To Every Believing Christian
Ethical Matters In Ministry: Understanding The Disposition of The Minister To Money
Whose Leadership Model Do You Follow?: Understanding Why You Must Identify With The Right Leader
Joy And Leadership: Understanding The Link
BEHOLDING The Glory of CHRIST With An UNVEILED FACE : Discover The Dangers of Seeking Glory At Any Means
Latest Podcast
Enthroning The Most High God Vs Enthroning Satan
The REVELATION of Jesus Christ: Jesus Christ The GRACE!
The ETHICAL Matters In MINISTRY: The Minister And Laying On of Hands
Understanding BIBLICAL Leadership Types
How Far Can Satan Go With Your Body Pt.2?
The Revelation of Jesus Christ: The Word Jesus Christ (Prayer & Closing Charge)
The REVELATION of Jesus Christ: The Word Jesus Christ
In SEARCH of God
The ETHICAL Matters In MINISTRY: The Disposition of Minister To Money
Most Listened Podcast
How To Lead Your Organization Through Turbulent Times
Discipleship: Faithful Is He Who Calls - He Will Do It, You Are Not Alone, Nor Abandoned
Jesus: The Power And The Wisdom of God
Leadership By Value: Why Must People Follow You?
What Kingdom Do You Represent?
The Cornerstone of Church Authority, Responsibility & Influence
How God Preserves And Prepares Generations Through Effective Leadership
Leadership Focus: The Proof of Progressive Leaders
Perfect Leadership In An Imperfect World
How Did You Come About Your Leadership Vision? Created or Captured?
Most Downloaded Podcast
The Consequences of Voting Bad Leaders in Forthcoming General Elections in Nigeria
The Law of Seed: Whose Leadership DNA Do You Have?
Returning Back To The Father of spirits: Am I Pleasing The Lord?
What Is The BURDEN of Your Life?
The Dangers of Encroaching Into The Leadership Garden of Your Neighbour
Leading Your Way To Victory Though Faith
March On, Do Not Be Tired! - Discover The Love-Side of Waiting on God
Leadership Promise: How Leaders Are Chosen
How to Gain Competitive Advantage In An Hostile Business or Corporate Environment
Hunger - The Prerequisite for More in God
Popular Categories
Self Growth (87)
Leadership Growth (78)
Spirituality (80)
Self Awareness (28)
Work, Career & Ministry (33)
Leadership Awareness (32)
Relationship & Marriage (18)
Politics & Governance (13)
Churchshift (10)
Five-fold Ministry (8)
CentreNDL™ MBTI Personalities
The Artist (ISFP)
The Caregiver (ESFJ)
The Doer (ESTP)
The Duty Fulfiller (ISTJ)
The Executive (ENTJ)
The Giver (ENFJ)
The Guardian (ESTJ)
The Idealist (INFP)
The Inspirer (ENFP)
The Mechanic (ISTP)
The Nurturer (ISFJ)
The Performer (ESFP)
The Protector (INFJ)
The Scientist (INTJ)
The Thinker (INTP)
The Visionary (ENTP)
Tag Cloud

how  Your  Great   Bwari   taking responsibility   leaders   work   Islam   ministry   power   Jews   life   vision    human race   Joy   Disequilibrium   Church   Leadership Coaching in Nigeria   relevance   Judaism   purpose   Gboyega Adedeji   my purpose   Leadership Coach   Leadersoil  how to  7   discipleship   courageous leaders   how to discover   nigeria  Valuable Leadership   Abuja   God  leadership  
Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence
Stats: 1,127 words / Reading Time: 5.64 mins

Published: Wednesday 22nd January 2020

Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence is read 417 times on CentreNDL.org 417

Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence

How Much Price Can You Possibly Pay For It?

The news of Prince Harry and his wife, Meghan Markle leaving behind the royal life and its largesse to start their own family life afresh outside the glamour of the palace and the unfriendly British tabloids which will be around for a long time. I know, and I am a firm believer that history is made one way or the other, irrespective of the divide where such histories may fall. What Harry and Meghan have just done is historical, and one that would be told for many generations yet to come.


Meghan Markle entrance into the Royal Family in the first place was not without its own antecedent controversy. Many Britons till now haven't still come to terms with how Prince Harry, the 6th in line to the throne of Great Britain would stoop so low as to marry a commoner, a black American girl with no ties to any monarchy anywhere in the world. Many of us aren't unaware how monarchies are, and the grandeur with which it comes with. We know that royalties flock together, and most wouldn't want to be associated with commoners. "How can Harry stoop so low?" "What did he see in that girl?", some British Media wrote.


But none of those comments stopped Harry from marrying the love of his life. So, the marriage was consummated, the whole world stood still on that faithful day, 19th May, 2018 when Harry and Meghan tied the knot in St. George's Chapel at Windsor Castle, United Kingdom. One would think all the hatred would go away since Harry didn't change his mind. Little did anyone know that the beginning of Meghan's media trial had just begun. She would afterwards be attacked left, right and center by British Media. If she walks, they will "say she didn't walk well." When she dresses, they will write "she didn't dress well." They brought out all the differences between her and Kate Middleton, the Duchess of Cambridge.


Kate didn't have many of those backlashes because William had toed the path of the Royal Palace. Kate, unlike Meghan, grew up in Chapel Row, a village near Newbury, Berkshire, England, and not in some Wild West where Meghan happen to come from. She studied art history in Scotland at the University of St Andrews, and not some random actress like Meghan who is probably looking for some opportunity to dig some gold in the Royal Palace. One can simply continue to bring about the differences between the two women, who grew up in different part of the world, but fortunate enough to marry to be married to two British princes in the same family.


The British tabloids didn't have so much reasons to hate on Kate. She is White and she is one of them. On the other hand, Meghan knew she would not have it that rosy, and Harry too isn't oblivious about all the possible backlashes that his marriage to Meghan would generate. But hey, these two are adults and they are capable and old enough to take their destinies into their own hands.


How Much Price Can One Possibly Pay For Family Peace?

Earlier in January, 2020, Harry and Meghan made a shocking announcement that shook the entire British monarchy. Harry and Meghan had announced that they would step back

Visitors who read this article also read:
Finance In Marriage: 5 Tips on How To Handle Money Problems in Marital Relationships
Helping Marital Relationship: Discover What Becomes of Men Who Help Their Helping Wives
How To Lead Your Way Out of An Abusive Relationship: 3 Tips To Consider
from their roles as senior members of the royal family, split their time between the United Kingdom and North America and work toward becoming financially independent. This decision they took, without any prior consultation with any inner member of the palace. The announcement did not go down well with many members of the royal family, but hey, "a man has got to do what he's got to do."


For Harry, being the leader and the head of his own nuclear family, this is the price he has to pay to enjoy the necessary family life and coherence that he needed and wanted for his family. Harry has always had a fragmented relationship with the British tabloids who he blames for his mother’s death. Meghan, on the other hand, feels the tabloids were out to destroy her from the very beginning. But they had to choose between staying back in the United Kingdom and allowing the tabloids to have their full feast on them, or leave behind everything they have come to know and take a long walk away from everything. The public funds would no longer come, and they would no longer formally represent the Queen.


Harry will also give up being Honorary Air Commander Royal Air Force Honington and Commodore-in-Chief of Small Ships and Divings, the new arrangement reads. He will also lose the title: Captain General of the Royal Marines, a role he was given by Queen Elizabeth in 2017, succeeding Prince Philip. The new deal also forbids him from wearing his military uniform at public events, including Trooping the Color and Remembrance Sunday at the cenotaph, The Telegraph reports.


But hey, what are all these things when you desperately need your peace of mind, your family peace and what have you? Whether one likes it or not, peace comes with a price, and you must ask yourself if you are truly willing to pay that price. The decision to take a walk by Harry and Meghan sure didn't go down well with many, not with the Queen, and many other prominent people within the family. But one thing is definitely sure: the ensuing peace that follows is not what money or royalty could buy for them.


That tells you something, that leadership, peace and coherence has its own price. Are you willing to pay that price?

Thanks for the gift of your time, I am Obayomi Abiola Benjamin!

Feel free to share your thoughts or testimony with me in the comment box below. I promise to respond to them as soon as possible!

Word of Confession: (Optional)

Lord Jesus, I confess to you that I have sinned against the LORD God - in the rebellion of my heart, I have disappointed your expectations on my life. I have fallen from Your grace and followed wrong influences around me. Today, I retrace my steps back to you - and I ask that in your mercy you accept me as your son and give to me (again) the promise of the Father - the Holy Spirit. Lord Jesus, please, come and make my heart your home, and from there rule in the affairs of all men. In Jesus Name I have prayed.


Leadership Family Peace Coherence Price 2020 January Christ Jesus Bible Exposition Today Le

2 0
Do You Like This Article? If yes, share it!

Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence  Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence  Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence  Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence
Article Publisher
ObayomiAbiola on CentreNDL
About Obayomi Abiola Benjamin

Obayomi Abiola Benjamin on Facebook Obayomi Abiola Benjamin on TwitterObayomi Abiola Benjamin on Google+Obayomi Abiola Benjamin on YoutubeObayomi Abiola Benjamin BlogSend Email to Obayomi Abiola Benjamin

|Teacher|Author|Christian|Real Estate|Publisher|GreatIfe|OAU

What Do You Think About This Article? Share Your Comment
Leave a reply
Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Join the Conversation on Facebook
Join the Conversation with CentreNDL on Facebook
Related Insights
Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence

Leadership, Family Peace and Coherence: How Much Price Can You Possibly Pay For It?

The news of Prince Harry and his wife, Meghan Markle leaving behind the royal life and its largesse to start their own family life afresh outside the glamour of the palace and the unfriendl....

How To Lead Your Way Out of An Abusive Relationship

How To Lead Your Way Out of An Abusive Relationship: 3 Tips To Consider

I know the silent cry in the hearts of many people in any form of abusive relationship is how to quietly exit such relationsh....

The Mandate of Marriage

The Mandate of Marriage: Understanding The Blessing That Comes On The Marital Union

This morning, under the leadership of the Holy Spirit, we are going to be looking at the mandate of marriage. But we are goin....

The Wrapped Gift Of Pleasure

The Wrapped Gift Of Pleasure: How To Discern Your Own Marriage

Before me I have what could be a gift. I am sure if it is packaged in a wine colored material it, will be very attractive for anybody to behold. For many peopl....

Nuggets for Leaders

Sonship is not what you DO, it is who you ARE!

If you must STAND against the wiles and schemes of Satan; then, you must SIDE with the One who created him. If the LORD God doesn't HELP, you stand no chance of DEFEATING Satan!

You enthrone the Most High God each time you listen to His Word and do accordingly; you enthrone Satan each time you follow his urges, pressures, schemes and manipulations! Be AWARE!

If you fix your mind on the impossibilities, it will be strange for you to ever see any possibility around you. Have you seen someone who watch two playing football teams and support the two teams at the same time. You can only appreciate your side view of any matter. And you only see your own side of the story. If you must have possibility, then you must side with possibilities!

Share Us on Twitter Share Us on Twitter Share Us on Twitter Share Us on Twitter
Enthroning The Most High God Vs Enthroning Satan
My Accounts Assorted Links Useful Links Affiliate Links Follow CentreNDL

CentreNDL founding purpose is to see transformed Nigeria led by servant-leaders with Christlike character
Join CentreNDL
Staff SignIn
Members LogIn
Lost Password

Four-Layer Development Programme™
Cave of Adullam Project™
Leadership Growth Package™
Leadership Network™
CentreNDL MBTI Personality Test™
Video Archive
Facebook Live
Youtube Live
About Us
Our Faculty
Our People
Contact Us
Leadership Fellowship
Disciplers Convocation
Evening Bible School (E.B.S)
Forms & Patterns™
Internship at CentreNDL

Flickers of Hope Foundation
CentreNDL on Facebook  Facebook

CentreNDL on Twitter  Twitter

CentreNDL on Google+  Google+

CentreNDL Blog  Blog

Send Email to Hubpile  Email